Wednesday, January 26, 2011

HA, FUCKING, HA!

The hubby finally went into melt down mode last night.  Mr. rock, Mr. voice of reason, Mr. quit complaining and just make the best of it, finally broke down.  This came to a complete shock to me by the way.  I think the reality of being in limbo with this whole house situation is getting to him.  I mean geez, when it was starting to eat away at me at the beginning of this month, putting me in a bad mood, stressing over the fact that I might actually have to move, he turned it into a major fight.  This is why I didn't say anything to you about it.  You will just tell me it is what it is and there is no use stressing about it.  HA, welcome to my world asshole.  Since the fight, I have mellowed out a lot, just taking it day to day.  Some are better then others, depending on how irrational my brain wants to function.  The only thing I said to him last night when he finally told me what his problem was, was that hey I know how you feel.  Should I start a fight with you like you did with me about it?  No, I'm just going to leave you alone to work it out in your own head like you should have done with me.  No sense adding to the situation.  And one month till D-day.  Then we will know how far BofA wants to shove it in our asses.

On the bright side the kids are actually behaving themselves this week.  Well my two are anyways.  Evil step bastard has an agenda of his own to make everyones life a living hell because he is grounded and has an F.  Thank god it's his week at his moms.  However I have to hear the backlash of him being grounded by the constant text messages he sends the hubby every night.  Last night before I went to the gym, he graced us with his presence for about 10 minutes so he could get yelled at by dad.  This kid just doesn't get it.  The hubby should have taken the phone away too.  And lucky me this adds to the hubby's bad mood.  And he just cant understand why I keep searching for a 3 bedroom house. 

I swear I had the hardest time getting up this morning.  My bed was all warm and cozy.  The hubby called on my way to work this morning and says did you drug me last night?  Um, no!  He says I just cant wake up today.  Yep I know how you feel, I am having the same problem.  And besides if I was going to drug your ass, it would be to put you to sleep permanently.  It's just the Wednesday rut.  Or there was something in the spaghetti I made last night, like that stuff in turkey that makes you sleepy.  Good thing I decided on a crockpot meal today, that way it will be ready when I get home, no fuss no muss!

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