Crazy thoughts from a mom thats sick of her family!
Live free as long as you can. If they haven't filed on you yet you have some leverage. You have a lot of time between getting served and the actual foreclosure. Not sure if you're working with an attorney, but never hire one until you're served. They can prolong the process and possibly save it for you.
Thanks for the advice. Ha I actually work for a law firm so free legal advice...yay! You know we have lived here for a while and started looking when it got close to the mediation. Because we thought we were going to get and answer and actual yes or no we secured a rental house as a back up. So now were moving. I'm just done with the whole thing and it's time to move forward!